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Do you lend books to friends?

Do you lend books to friends?

Susan #questionnaire

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Gail

I expect them back unless I have specifically said I don’t.

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Sharon

Printed books yes but ebook no

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Sandra

Only when I KNOW I’ll get them back (or have said pass to charity)

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SusanQuestion author

I have said that in the past, but I gave lent my friend about 6 books as she had nothing to read. They were books I hD not read and told her so . Therefore I expected them to be returned.

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Sandra

Susan – books you’ve not read? You’re a much more generous person than I am. Even family don’t get those!

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Kathleen

Love passing them on

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SusanQuestion author

I think that is why I am quite upset. My signed books , she can look but not touch!

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Emmett

Occasionally but I WANT them back

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Alexina

I used to, but now I mostly only have signed copies so no…however I do send unsigned books to the library for re sale x

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SusanQuestion author

I do let my Mam read my signed books and she appreciates them

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Alexina

My friend “lost” mine for a while… I was hyperventilating for ages after….months… Til they were found. Never again!

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Lisa

I appreciate them too!! Xx

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SusanQuestion author

Yes I know you do! @Lisa.

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Ian

Never! Done it in the past and I never get them back or they come back damaged. I’m too precious!

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Cathy

I do but NEVER before I’ve read them first x

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Val

I lend mine to my sister after I’ve read them but always ask for them back.

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Malcolm

Yes, but now the bookshelf looks like a boxer’s dental record!

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Margaret

Yes ? I do if think they will like ? them xx

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Suzanne

Yes hardly ever get them back though. Bit I like sharing great books

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SusanQuestion author

Love this @Lucy!

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Stella

Yes, I swap books with my BF twice a year, at least!

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Chrissy

No I give them away. Saves upset when they are not returned xx

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SusanQuestion author

Stupid me had not read the books!

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Christine

… yes … but tend not to get them back. So don’t lend my best loved books!

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David

Only when I tell myself I’ll probably not get them back.

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Sue

All the time. I rarely get them back, so it’s more of a “give.”

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Julie

Yes, and borrow too. I’m an expat, so I gain from the arrangement.
But only one (to each friend) at a time. And only to people I know fairly well. If I don’t get it back (in reasonable condition), they won’t get another one.
(The only exception is my sister, who is hopeless, but she’s my sister, so …)

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Tom

I’ll trust someone once, but if they betray that trust, never again.

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Mark

Never

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John

Never! Roger zelazny said that only friends steal books.

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Livia

When I finish a book I pass it on if they are old I hand them to the charity shop.Some I treasure if they’ve been given to me.I have a book signed by Luca Veste that I will keep till I’m 100 .

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Larraine

I used to but some people dont return them so no more! I do give books to friends though if they are ones I wont re read and that I know they’ll enjoy, and also to charity shops.

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Irene

We take bags of books to give to friends in France when we .

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Robert

I don,t I keep them all on my kindle

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Sharon

I used to not now lent a book signed by a author my friend put a coffee cup I said what have you done she said it just a coffee mark went mad

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Sharon

And other halves daughter she had left the book on her stairs bent it half never again mcbeaton

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Sharon

Me too

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Lucy

Here’s 7 more weird book- related words then! 🙂 http://www.lucyvhayauthor.com/8-weird-book-reated-words-you-need-to-know/

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Karl

A man showed me his vast library. Me: That is one helluva collection! He: Yes, and keep your hands to yourself, I never lend a book to anybody. Me: But, don’t you think books should be circulated? He: Maybe, but all these books are borrowed!

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Gail

Will give friends books if I don’t want them back but no longer books I want to keep.

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Christine

I only lend to my sister and I get them back in same condition they were lent to her in.

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Ellie

Only to close friends who I know look after books and I keep a log of loaned out and in.

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Louise

Not any more!!!!

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Louise

I too pass on books I don’t need to keep, but would not share one I was keeping.

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Christine

Yes get them back then put in the charity shop

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Catherine

Not any more as I rarely get them back.

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A.K.

Ohh I am so glad that I’m not the only one not lending my books to all and sundry! People bend page corners to mark where they are, instead of using a book mark or use my book as a good place to place their coffee mug 🙁 No more lending my books!

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Julie

Choose better friends!

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Gemma

That frustrates me so much it’s unreal.

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Sean

I give them to friends yes but I don’t lend them out.

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Trudi

Yes and give them away

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Julie

Yeah all the time

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